Would you fight harder to stay in a house if you were a spirit if you knew that what you were doing was working? Or if you felt like the reason that they were talking about it was because they were scared? I would... and I think that if its a spirit that once lived that hasnt crossed over would have that type of mentality. If its something that has never lived, I still have the same opinion. Things would go a lot more smoothly if what ever it is in your home felt like it was not "winning" someone said that coming into your home and just saying "its good to home" will help and I totally agree . That is the perfect mentality to have. It would be harder to have that mentality if you were too consumed and worried about it playing over and over all the things it has done and talking about it with other people. Its a way to not only give them less power but give you more power. Mind over matter goes a long way not that it will make it go away though...

There is also something to say about a comment someone made about the whole cancer thing... I completely agree with you and I think some of you misunderstood what I was trying to say but not that its completely relative to the topic but there are people who have had cancer "cured" by no type of treatments... just a will, and a little faith. So keep the will and the faith but it will do you no good to talk about your "cancer" issue (aka haunting issue)

I don't mean to offend anyone and I hope that I haven't