You can try to burn a white sage candle. This will help clear the energy in your home. Next set some boundries. Say out loud and with force what they are and tell them what you want. Don't budge. You have the power and you have to use it. Another thing that you can try is have a paranormal group in your area do an investigation and have them do a smudging or house cleansing. Try this. Take care

You can definitely try a sage candle or just the white sage herb to smudge your area and more importantly YOURSELF since that is where the attachment is. Bathe yourself in smoke as if you are showering in it. But smudging really only helps sweep away negative energy and by itself won't release a spirit attachment, only loosen it. I really so believe this is your husband. He may have been attached to you the whole time and has only made his intention known for the last couple of years. Clearly, there's unfinished business, or a feeling that he needs to protect you. So, really, this is up to you. Other mediums can say they've crossed him over, and they may have opened up the way for him to go, but he probably turned back at the last second and decided to stay, leaving the process incomplete. It's really going to be up to you, but you can do it

Tomorrow night is the full moon. The moon is the mirror of the energy of the universe. At the full moon, its reflection is the most powerful. Go outside and find a nice quiet spot where you won't be interrupted. If this isn't possible, find a window where you have a great view and sit by it. Meditate for a moment and clear your mind. Ask for protection as you search for your answers from whomever you feel comfortable asking. When you are ready, start simply talking aloud about the things that have been bothering you. Things that are happening now, and the things that you yourself are still hanging onto. Anything that comes into your mind to discuss, do it. Keep an open dialogue with the universe. Be open to receiving the answers you've been waiting for. Urge him to go. Tell him it's ok and you'll be fine without him. Tell him he is free to come back and visit as he pleases. Think about who would be on the other side to greet him. A friend? Beloved grandparent/parent/other relative? Call for their help. Call for all the help you can get. You will know if he decides to cross and release the attachment because it will feel like someone removed a lead coat from you. Hope this helps and if you do this please let us all know how it went.

~Angela

Angela, always with the right fix & sage advice ( no pun intended)

What is entity attachment or possession?

There are several good books written about this subject, such as The Unquiet Dead, by Dr. Edith Fiore. In her book, Dr. Fiore explains that after people die, they usually go to “the Light”, as written about in many life after death books. Sometimes, however, souls don’t go to the Light for various reasons and instead remain earth bound. This is especially true in certain cases where someone dies angry, an addict of sex or any substance, or if they die a violent or sudden death. These souls resist going into the Light for various reasons and often seek out and merge with someone in a physical body who can feed their addiction, have similar feelings of anger, depression, or other fears, or they may stay in close proximity to loved ones they knew while in a physical body. Often the intense feelings at the time of death are held onto and then felt by whomever the entity attaches to or merges with. Even entities who don’t mean any harm may be draining, causing tiredness or depression, and confuse their thoughts and desires with those of the host. How to get rid of spirit attachment Ask the presence to leave you. Talking to the spirit will alert it that you are aware of its presence and want it to leave. In some cases, the spirit will simply leave you after this is done. Some spirits will resist, and it will be necessary to announce by whose authority they are cast out, such as in the name of God or your higher power.

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Anoint the infested area. Anointing the area can be done using many different items. Oil, water and salt are commonly sprinkled in an infected area to rid it of supernatural forces. Try lighting candles and incense, as fire is a natural and spiritual cleansing element. Spread the smoke of these around the area you are removing the spirits from. Having these items blessed by a spiritual leader or pastor may help to empower them all the more.

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Pray that the spirit leave. Meditation and prayer is one way to get in touch with the supernatural realm. It is believed that prayer can help send messages to your ancestors who have passed before you, and they will ask the spirits to leave or protect you from them. You may also conduct prayer in your own traditional manner to demand the spirits detach from you. Praying over nonperishable items, such as clothing and new furniture, before bringing them into your house can help prevent you from carrying in new spirits attached to inanimate objects.

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Open a physical pathway for the spirit to leave. This can be a door or window that remains open while you ask the spirit to go. Making a physical path of exit will allow the spirit to leave without attaching to other people or harming anyone. Stay clear of the path when doing this, and ensure you show no fear, as a spirit will sense this and remain, despite your best efforts, if its intent is sinister.

thank you for reply..i have tried alot of things you mentioned..but can always try again..my six sense tells me it is my husband who passed 4 years ago..everything was ok untill he passed..and his death was sudden.and he was the sort of person who would want to stick around..but i cannot understand the sexual part..i have tried so hard to get him to go into the light, and so has many mediums..i feel i am stuck with him..and i am so tired of all this..i just want him to leave me alone..i just need the right help..some mediums who say they can help, i cannot afford..i just don't know what to do..

thank you for reply..did not get the chance to do what you said..but i have spoke to him so many times..told him family will be waiting..and he can come back and visit me anytime..but i know he is stubborn.and i think maybe he is waiting for his mum to cross..he was abit of a mummys boy..but she could still have years.and i do not want him around me..i feel his energy on me alot in the day time..i can cope with that..but not when i lie down..i do feel him touch me..all on body..i don't know if it is just energy, but feels real.i do feel he was nearly crossed over, medium told me. said they had took him..but must have come back..i feel maybe he is scared now to cross..i read books about what it is like on the other side, and tell him about it..i try so hard.many mediums who say they can help, want money i have just not got.and the longer this goes on, family think it is not so important..just one of those things.but i cannot except this..i don't want this.i want my life back..and got to keep on looking for help.thank you again for reply..x

I think if you have tried all these things and they haven't given you any peace than you are not dealing with your husband or any kind of a good spirit. I don't mean to frighten you by this by any means, only to inform you that you may need more help than what you have gotten already.

I would agree with the advice you were given earlier of finding a paranormal group close to you to see if they can help. many times they have shamans or other such magicians (for lack of a better term) that can help you exorcise this spirit.

my thoughts remain with you that you may find some peace soon.

thank you for reply.i have had many mediums help..i have had groups together..i have had a vicer come with help..i have had a medium stay the night..energy she felt was strong..but said it was nothing to worry about..i am at a stand still.i am talking to a top medium from irland..and he has told me to visulise a peaceful place..and see the light, and for me to cross this spirt over..i have tried, but to no avail.going to try again...but i don't think i can do this kind of thing..my nephew captures voice on his eqipment..but wont say his name...the only reason i say it is my husband is because, everything was ok untill he passed, then i started to hear his voice, see him looking lost and confused..see him coming through a door..plus sp many dreams of him..one was him being in bed with me...i just don't know what to do anymore..

lintu,

Let me ask you this. When your husband passed, did you make any attempts to communicate with him. Did you ask him for help, or ask him to give you some sign that he was still there with you?

The reason I'm asking is that sometimes other spirits can use that as a doorway or avenue to form an attachment. They can act as the lost loved one, and form an attachment. Sometimes its with intent, other times its just out of a need for communication or companionship.

It could well be him, but I wouldn't simply assume so just because of the timing of the events. It was probably also a time in your life when you were emotionally weak, and as such susceptible to outside influences.

Remember, in death as in life there are all forms of people. Some who are vocal, intend only good and would never knowingly cause distress to someone. Then there are those who really are quiet, and can co-exist without anyone ever knowing they're around. They're there but you'll never know it. And then there are those with a purpose and they really do not care who or what gets in their way. They've lost sight of the concept of consequence (if they ever had it) and are pure drive.

Have you ever tried doing an EVP session?

thank you for reply..what is evp ? i never tried to communicate with my husband..years before he passed i was seeing things..astrol travel, seeing visions through astrol..seeing lights...when my husband passed i felt him around me, heard his voice..saw him in vision.i never asked him anything..only got messages from him through a medium..i am so tired of feeling this energy around me.with me when i wake..not normal..and night time is like a fight..just seems to want one thing..how is that right ?